people face tradeoffs

The first trade off that happened to me was when my aunt want me to get to have a Christmas vacation at Hongkong when she found out that I have a boyfriend, then she asked me "What do you want? Have a vacation here at Hongkong and leave your boyfriend or be with your boyfriend and I will not entertain you as my niece anymore?" that was a tough decision for me because my aunt and my boyfriend are both important to me. but I came up to a very important decision that a family is very important than a boyfriend that's why I broke up with my boyfriend and have a Christmas vacation at Hongkong.

The second trade off that happened to me was I want to go to my friend's debut. The day before the celebration, I woke up early, clean my room, clean the house "as in general cleaning" then I tried to ask my dad if I can go to my friend's debut and I will sleep there so that they will not be worried for me to go home late at night. because of the "good shot" my dad say yes.